Stop Being So Damn Serious!

I have a tendency to be too serious at times. I'm pretty sure most of us have that tendency, probably even comedians get really serious from time to time. There are some people though, who take everything way too seriously. They are always pouting and never smile, they can't take a joke, they don't know how to laugh, they get angry at the slightest disagreement, etc. I have met these types of people, and they are not fun to be around. I had to be really careful not to grind their gears, and it took a lot of effort. Compared to people who have even a slight sense of humor, I would rather be with them than the people who are too serious. 

I, myself have been mistaken as a person who was too serious by some people I knew(must be because of my serious face which people commented that is scary). These people are usually just acquaintances and they never hung out with me. When they did and they found out that I actually can laugh, they get really surprised at my sense of humor and my tendency to laugh a lot. 

The reason why I have a sense of humor and laugh a lot is because I learned that:

•Laughter is the best medicine for any bad day

•The most memorable times I have with my family and friends is when we laughed our heads off

•People will like you more if you can make them laugh or at least if you laugh with them

•You will be a lot more attractive to the opposite sex if you have a good sense of humor

Trust me, being a person who is too serious is not fun at all. You will tend to hate everything and you will be unhappy with your life. Stop it and go laugh out loud. You'll be glad you did.

You Need To Let Go Right Now

Letting go is probably one of the hardest things to do in life. We may not be able to let go of our ex cheating on us or our friend stabbing us in the back but we need to for our own well being.

Imagine you're hanging on a cliff for dear life, your right hand is hanging on the ledge while your left hand is holding a bag. You need to let go of this bag to be able to lift yourself up and save your own life. The problem is, we cannot let go of the bag for our own personal reasons. The bag is holding us down but in reality, it's useless. That is like us in real life, only the bag represents our bad experiences in the past.

Remember unless you let go, you won't be able to truly lift yourself up, move on, and enjoy or be happy with your life. Whatever bag is holding you down, let it go and climb the cliff to save your life.

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