Thursday, January 24, 2019

What I Learned This 1st Month of 2019

January is almost over and already so many things happened in my life. From events in my family to events in my career, to events in my relationships and personal life. I've learned a lot with just this first month. So far here's what I learned:

•I got injured playing basketball in the 1st week, I sprained my left ankle. I had to withstand the pain because it was a moderate injury. There are times when I push through it just to be able to spend time with my family because my brother and father was here for the holidays. I still remember walking in SM Megamall with a sharp pain on my left ankle, but it was worth it because I got to spend quality time with my fam. I learned how to withstand pain.

•On the second week I went to an event in my financial advisor part time job and learned a lot of tips from the speakers there. Pru Life UK had its year kick off party. I ate delicious food there and met some new people. What I enjoyed was learning from the more experienced employees. I learned how to have niche market, how to accept rejection gracefully, how to succeed as a part-timer among other stuff. I was disappointed that I had to leave early so that I can rest my sprained ankle.

•On the second and third week was my job application in a call center. I applied at a recruitment agency for call centers and passed. The recruiter gave me choices on which call center I want to apply. I chose the nearer one. I was able to apply a week later than my application in the recruitment agency because I had to rest my ankle more. When I did apply, I passed the application with flying colors. The problem was that the company was unfairly rushing me to complete all my requirements in just one day! I had a gut feeling not to go through with this and since my previous experiences with call centers were bad and I wanted to try a new field of work. I decided not to go through with it. I learned that I can pass a job application, I just had to be confident.

•On the fourth week I had an argument with my mom. I accused her of not having emotional support for me but then she lashed out and defended herself and justified that she does support me, I'm just not noticing it. I felt guilty and apologized immediately after. I promised to her that I will be more responsible in my career, in helping around the house and be responsible in my life in general. I learned to take responsibility.

With those being said, January 2019 is not over. I'm excited for what will happen in the remaining days. I'm also more excited as next February is my birth month!


Saturday, January 12, 2019

New Year, New Me? Not really.

Every new year we make resolutions. Every new year we have this mentality that we need to change something in our lives for the better. The "new year, new me" mindset. But, to my surprise, most people actually don't achieve their resolutions. They make resolutions just for the sake of having them, or worse, because everybody else does it. Let me tell you something: you don't have to wait for New Year's to make your resolutions. You can make them anytime of the year. Also, when you're making a resolutions, make it based on what's truly important to you, not based on what other's want for you. If you want to lose weight, then work for it, exercise and diet and lose the excess weight, if you want to travel more then book your next flight soon, if you want to date more then ask out more people that you are attracted to. The most important thing probably is to be committed to the resolution. Finish what you start. If it will take a few months then commit. If it will take a few years then still commit. The reason why most people probably never achieve their resolution is that they quit, simple as that

There's actually nothing wrong with the "new year, new me" mindset. What's wrong is that people keep doing this every year without actually having a "new me."