Remember the time you learned how to walk when you were a baby? Of course not because you were a baby back then! Kidding aside, the reason why I want you to remember that is that when we were babies and were learning how to walk, we stumbled and failed many times before we actually learned how to properly walk. Sure our parents tried to teach us, but we learned it ourselves by trying and trying until we succeeded.
That is the awkward stage of learning. Whenever we try to learn something new, there's an immensely hard part at the beginning where we are awkward and we make a lot of mistakes and fail before we get it right the first time. Everyone goes through this. Everyone starts as being a beginner at anything in life.
Now, remember the time when you tried to learn how to ride the bicycle. Almost everyone can relate to this as we fell and scratched our knees and legs whenever we made a mistake at the start of learning. Eventually, though, we learned how to ride the bike. Some people have even mastered riding the bike with no hands on the grip!
This also applies to everyday things like learning how to drive a car, cook, clean the house, read, write, speak, etc.
Also, we can apply this to other complicated and advanced matters in life like learning how to go on a date. I remember my first date with a girl. I was so nervous and shy, that my date thought of me as a weirdo. Now, I've gone on many dates and the women I went out with usually enjoy the date and my company as much as I enjoy them also.
Remember this as you apply this awkward learning to stage to other advanced matters as well like learning how to travel, public speaking, make a presentation, doing a sales talk, teaching people, learning how to start a business, trying a new job, learning a second language, meeting new friends, etc.
Allow yourself to make mistakes and fail at the start, learn from your mistakes and failures because that is how we learn new things. Everyone makes mistakes. Every master starts as a beginner.
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